This because people around me who I meet in my daily life pronounce my name in all the weirdest ways possible like, following:
“DEBIT” by assuming that the J is silent.
“DEPJHHET” or “DEPSHET” which sounds a deepshit, which obviously is not a good experience for me to hear. I do not want to be a butt of jokes.
Regarding my prefered last name, Shaw was what my great grandfathers and grandfathers would be addressed as by their British bosses (when India was a british colony) because they would have diffulty in pronouncing the last name.